• To become a better human, to treat others better, to identify interesting people, to make friends, to know the heart of men

“I feel other humans are fellow travelers, strange souls, little flickering conscious lights, to be treasured as we walk down a limitless inscrutably strange path together, and I bow inside quietly to everyone that I meet - we share a place in this whirling, chaotic universe” -ldeming

• to see yourself in everyone

In anticipation of love

Just know when to diverge and say smth funny

Notes:

• Live lightly, to love others, be humorous, don’t have to be so serious all the time
• Even when doing work - be the type of person who others want to help
• To laugh at life
• “As if hanging out was the thing we were doing, and not being together.”

Tips for meeting new people:

• Curiosity is exciting
• Humor is about observation. All you have to do is pay attention
• Don’t take yourself so seriously
• Be authentic, playful, generative, “know the heart of men”
• Ask questions that they’ve never had to pull from about things they care about
• You can learn from anyone and everyone, listen intentionally